Wednesday, July 13, 2011
10 Months and still going strong! Basically almost a year XD
from left to right: my boyfriend, then me
This blog is an outlet on how I can keep up my long distance relationship. I read somewhere online that it's better to keep a blog or a journal where we can put our thoughts and feelings sooo...here it is.
How do you define a long distance relationship:
Huh...For me, an ldr is where you and your significant other are far, far apart and trying for a long-lasting relationship. I wouldn't say that there are a lot of successful LDRs, but I know that if you can get through the distance, then you can get through any other problems that occur in your relationship.
Honestly, my significant other and I always fight. On the phone, through text, through facebook. You name it. But we always gravitate back to each other because first of all, we went through so many things, and second of all, we wouldn't give up all our memories just for petty fights like, 'oh you forgot to text me!' and stuff like that. We have our arguments and disagreements, but in the end, we're still together.
I really don't know why that is, but I suppose it's because God deems it so.
And no, I'm not a hardcore Christian or Catholic. I'm just a Deist living in the modern world. XD
Anyway, just last night, we had a fight because he forgot to tell me what he was doing and yadeyadeyada. So I went about the whole day, wondering what happened to him from afternoon to evening. You know how crazy that makes me? Not even a call or a brief text saying what the hell he was doing? Ni gan ma! I was ready to pull my hair out!
In the end, after minutes of silent arguing on the phone (well i was pretty silent, he was fuming), he was sorry and let's just say that he learned his lesson. End of story.
Then another thing happened this morning that made him annoyed lol. I wake him up at around 4 every morning for school. I call him, he wakes up. Well, it takes him awhile to, so I'm used to pressing the call button constantly. For some strange and unknown reason, he woke up on my first call. An hour later of constantly calling him, he then texts me, saying to stop calling him so much, he can't hear me.
He can't hear me because I'm falling asleep! xD Four am, cmon. Wouldn't you fall asleep too?
But yeah, another petty fight occurred and yadeyadeblahblah. We still are together and love each other deeply and meh. I'll eat my foot if I catch him gallivanting around with another girl. +_+
Info about my hubby:
Uhh. My significant other's name is Stanley. He's a little short tempered, but mostly calm and sweet. I love him to bits :3 We met on FB at around April, and let me tell you, he's the best of the best. <3
Labels: distance, first post, here he is, love, stanley
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
10 Months and still going strong! Basically almost a year XD
from left to right: my boyfriend, then me
This blog is an outlet on how I can keep up my long distance relationship. I read somewhere online that it's better to keep a blog or a journal where we can put our thoughts and feelings sooo...here it is.
How do you define a long distance relationship:
Huh...For me, an ldr is where you and your significant other are far, far apart and trying for a long-lasting relationship. I wouldn't say that there are a lot of successful LDRs, but I know that if you can get through the distance, then you can get through any other problems that occur in your relationship.
Honestly, my significant other and I always fight. On the phone, through text, through facebook. You name it. But we always gravitate back to each other because first of all, we went through so many things, and second of all, we wouldn't give up all our memories just for petty fights like, 'oh you forgot to text me!' and stuff like that. We have our arguments and disagreements, but in the end, we're still together.
I really don't know why that is, but I suppose it's because God deems it so.
And no, I'm not a hardcore Christian or Catholic. I'm just a Deist living in the modern world. XD
Anyway, just last night, we had a fight because he forgot to tell me what he was doing and yadeyadeyada. So I went about the whole day, wondering what happened to him from afternoon to evening. You know how crazy that makes me? Not even a call or a brief text saying what the hell he was doing? Ni gan ma! I was ready to pull my hair out!
In the end, after minutes of silent arguing on the phone (well i was pretty silent, he was fuming), he was sorry and let's just say that he learned his lesson. End of story.
Then another thing happened this morning that made him annoyed lol. I wake him up at around 4 every morning for school. I call him, he wakes up. Well, it takes him awhile to, so I'm used to pressing the call button constantly. For some strange and unknown reason, he woke up on my first call. An hour later of constantly calling him, he then texts me, saying to stop calling him so much, he can't hear me.
He can't hear me because I'm falling asleep! xD Four am, cmon. Wouldn't you fall asleep too?
But yeah, another petty fight occurred and yadeyadeblahblah. We still are together and love each other deeply and meh. I'll eat my foot if I catch him gallivanting around with another girl. +_+
Info about my hubby:
Uhh. My significant other's name is Stanley. He's a little short tempered, but mostly calm and sweet. I love him to bits :3 We met on FB at around April, and let me tell you, he's the best of the best. <3
Labels: distance, first post, here he is, love, stanley
about me
raining candies
name: Mel
likes: water proof eyeliners, liptints, bbcreams, & snail cream.
dislikes: school, & some people who love to annoy others..Blergh..
I'm taking up Medical Technology right now & even if I'm struggling a little, it's ok because I have makeup & friends to comfort me, right?
Oh! I also love eating healthy exercising everyday & reading. I read books & write whenever I have the free time. ^_^
